A matter of interest

I believe that the probability of a guy calling you boils down to a matter of interest. If  he really likes you (preferably one you haven’t met in a nightclub or pub) he’ll generally call when he says he will. If he doesn’t, then it’s a pretty good measurement of how interested he is. As Greg Behrendt’s book goes… maybe He’s Just Not That Into You?

Secondly, I’m of the belief that meeting the opposite sex in a bar spells trouble, because you’re usually dealing with someone on the hunt for a shag (I speak for blokes on this point). Plus the guy you’re looking at is more than likely under the influence of alcohol or drugs – or both. How much faith can you put into what someone says they’ll do in this sort of environment? In my opinion, very little!!

But while we’re on the calling game, it’s pretty standard practice to wait two the three days before you call someone. However, if you really like someone I bet you wouldn’t mind if they called you the next day… I know I wouldn’t!

Charlie

PS. In my experience, it’s quite rare that a girl is the first person to call. Nine times out of ten it’s the guy who makes the first move. Why is this?

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